Here is something that hurt a lot of women from finding true happiness and that is staying in love and holding on to past relationships! I know you say guys do it too, but if your ex broke up with you and he sees you a year or two or months down the road. If he acts like he is interest in you its only because he wants to see if he can still have sex with you, AND THAT IS IT!! He doesn’t care about you and he still feel the same way about you when he broke up with you the first place! An awful lot of women who think about their ex’s cannot let the sex go! They will lay in the bed and think about that good sex that her ex’s had and she cannot get it out of her system! Yes, you may love other things he has done, but it’s mostly about the sex, and that is what all this relationship stuff is about!! SEX!!

So, to all women you should know that you hurt yourselves by not letting him go and moving on with your life! Why are you living in the past when everything around you including time is moving forward? It doesn’t help you so move on because it only hinders you from enjoying someone new and its stops you from finding that man you really want…